Tuesday, August 22, 2006   Vianey, Leslie and Danica

 

Dear Akiko and Takuya:


I do not know if you live here, but I would like to try to reach you.  As you know, your Mother, has kept you from me all these years, your Father.  I do hope you are grownup enough to understand that I never left you.  Your Mother arranged it that way with the court and ran away and told so many lies about me.You see if I could not find you I could not get visitation rights to you. I went to visit you one time and your Mother, sweet loving Mother, had me arrested. Ha ha, Not a very nice thing to do as far as I was concerned.  I do hope that you can believe this.

 

I went to court 16 times; drove hundreds of mile to Mass. from New York.  All for nothing, I brought all the furniture to Mass. and gave you all my money and I left Mass. with 50 dollars and slept in my car for two weeks because I had no place to live. Finally, I got a small dirty room in a rooming house in Port Washington, NY.  Then I moved to the Bronx in my present apartment. It was all a nightmare and I still suffer from this situation from time to time. I just reconditioned my apartment, bath, bedroom, kitchen and living room this summer too.

 

My life without you was never really happy! I knew nothing about divorce law and did not have a chance to get my rights to you two. If I only knew now what I knew then everything would have worked out so much better and we would have a relationship.  However, due to your Mother’s insane way of dealing with problems which means her way or no way it was impossible for us to be together.  Her lies and deception was something I never experienced before for She was from another culture. I could not believe I married such a woman and the last time I looked at her she was a stranger to me. I lived with her for seven years and did not know who she was. Your Mother wanted to date another man when I was in Sunderland.  I should have brought that up in court but had no idea what I was doing.To me you two what was important and I did not want you in the hands of others, but what could I do your Mother had all the bases covered and I was the victim really.  She took you two out of our home in New York which really was illegal if I knew how to operate this situation within the law.  But I was so emotionally upset my friends had to take care of me for weeks until I got control of this situation from her kidnapping you two. Your Mother did not play a fare ballgame as we say. I am sorry to say these things for I know you love your Mother. But that doesn't mean you should not love your Father too or I not have access to you and support you in your life. Now you are adults and have formed your characters. So I hope you can be objective and not just think about your poor Mother. Because she is not poor and weak she knew and does know how to play people for her own advantage. And I am sure she is doing it to you too because you have no interest in seeing me.

 

She had rich friends who gave her money and lied for her which to me was awful and hurts me deeply.  Knowing your Mother has been the worst experience in my life. I am sorry to say this but it is the truth. Having children who do not want to contact me is nothing to be proud.  of, either. I am ashamed to talk about you two.  In fact, I must say I am ashamed of you two too because you do not have any wisdom or love for your real Father. I really do not understand this it is beyond my compression. You do not have to like me but you should know me and give yourself time to know me. At least the internet allows me to express my feelings to the awful injustice from this situation wether you agree with me or not.

 

Your Mother, ha, what a joke on me, the biggest mistake in my life.  I not only lost you two I lost great opportunities in my career in New York because I ran away from here because I was so upset.  Anyway, that is the past, but it still hurts me non the less. 

How a person can take a parent away from their children I do not know, but your Mother did.

 

I thought she was such a nice sweet person when I met her.  But from the first week when we were married she was ordering me around like I was her slave. I was not very smart and should have separated from her then, but I was a lonely man in a strange country and I needed a relationship. Plus my parents had a lot of problems and fights so I thought nothing of it. But I did not know of your Mother's history, or family history and how awful it was at the time.   I do not know what kind of life you had, where you have lived, what is your education, why you have not written me or had contact with me!  When people ask me how many children I have I say sometimes 2 and sometimes 4. 

Vianey and Leslie now live in Chicago with their Mother and Vianey has a cute 3 year old baby.

I lived with their Mother for 14 years, but she drank too much and I had to leave. I just could not take it any more.  I did this in 1999. But Maria is a wonderful woman except for her drinking which is not very respectful really. All forms of drugs are awful and destructive including too much medicine if taken wrongly.

Near me is a building where they have ex-drug addicts and it is a rehabilitation program. They cannot function in society it is really awful.

 

You have a wonderful Father. I hope you will take the time to get to know me.  You can read about my life at my web sites http://www.greghenrywaters.com http://www.cmporg.org http://www.yogayogayoga.org  E-mail gwatersusa@gmail.com  My phone is 917 529 5915

My address is Greg Waters 690 E 189th Street #5G, Bronx, NY 10458 It has always been the same address so there is no reason why you do not contact me.

 

I wonder why you do not want to know your Father.  It is a wonder what your Mother told you.

 

I have loved you all these years but have heard nothing from you or your Mother. Why you have to hide from me should be a shame to your life and being. I hope one day you can correct this situation and put our family right. Because your Mother cannot do it or the awful man Abba Bogin and his lies. This is my opinion. You do not have to accept it or like it. But I must say it is hard to respect you two also.

 

Your Father, Greg Henry Waters 

Taken in China 2004